Jaleel White was one of the biggest child stars of the 1990s. His turn as Steve Urkel on Family Matters made him a household name, and has maintained his relevance to this day. The actor decided to look back on his career with his new memoir, Growing Up Urkel . In it he details his rise to fame, his struggle to transition to mature roles, and his love life. One of the most unexpected chapters, however, details a date with fellow actor Bianca Lawson. A date that did not go particularly well, and that Jaleel White still feels a bit of saltiness over. In his memoir, Jaleel White claims that Bianca Lawson was his first ever date. He recalls being let down by the realization that Lawson was disinterested in him throughout the date. In fact, the only time White believes she showed any interest is when they stopped by an arcade and she needed money to play the games. They went on a second date, but Jaleel White admits it fizzled soon after. Upon reflecting on the date, the actor believes th